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Why Can’t I Get What I Want From Men?

Today’s dating culture is a minefield. With tricky dos and don’ts and endless conflicting strategies, women are more confused than ever. You could be hurting yourself and not even know it, but psychiatrist Susan L. Edelman says:

It’s not your fault.

Thirty years of listening to the deepest secrets of patients has allowed Dr. Edelman to unlock the mystery of why women don’t get what they want from men. She says dating doesn’t have to be filled with angst and disappointment anymore.

It’s time to change the game.

Dr. Edelman will give you the tools to date on your own terms, actually enjoy the process, and find happiness. Yes, all that is possible with Dr. Edelman’s transformative method.

Join the revolution. Be your own Brand of Sexy.


In my book, you’ll discover how you can:

  1. Have more success with men by saying less (the cure for being too chatty).
  2. Say “no” to what you don’t want with grace and dignity.
  3. Figure out whether or not he’s a keeper.  
  4. Handle rejection on and offline and feel great about yourself.
  5. Be a man magnet with a few key phrases so men will chase you and enthusiastically give you the kind of love you want.
  6. Keep from getting burned by a hot romance. 
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“The dating bible”


“A cultural manifesto for women that honors femininity, sexual intimacy, and the unique voice of sisterhood.” Amazon Customer Review


“A fascinating look at America’s current dating culture…solutions to dating, love and sex with an empowering message.” 
Foreword  Reviews

“I believe Be Your Own Brand of Sexy will soon become a much-needed classic.” 
—Hans Steiner, MD, Professor Emeritus (Active), Psychiatry and Human Development, Stanford University, School of Medicine 

“If you want to put an end to heartbreak and finally find the man for you, read this ground-breaking book!” 
—Ellen Haller, MD, Director of the Women’s Mental Health & Wellness Clinic, University of California, San Francisco

“A must have book for all women dating or looking to date”

“As informed and informative as it is thoughtful and thought-provoking…”
—Midwest Book Review

“In a world of mixed messages about sexuality, Susan Edelman’s wise guidelines are welcome.”
 —Susan Page, author of If I’m So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single and Why Talking is Not Enough

“This is a book about winning the dating game.”
—-David Spiegel, MD, Psychiatry Professor, Stanford Medicine,  Author, Living Beyond Limits


  • 2015 Grand Prize of the Beverly Hills International Book Awards
  • 1st place in the 2015 Beverly Hills International Book Awards Relationships category
  • 2015 Silver Medal in the Readers’ Favorite Awards Non-Fiction: Women’s category
  • Award-Winning Finalist in the 2015 USA Best Book Awards Self-Help: Relationships category
  • 2015 Pinnacle Book Achievement Award in the category of Women’s Interest
  • 1st Place in the 2016 Feathered Quill Book Awards Program for the Best Self-Help category
  • 2015 Forward Reviews’ INDIEFAB Book of the Year Awards Finalist in the Women’s Studies category
  • Runner Up in the 2016 Los Angeles Book Festival in the Non-Fiction General category

Don’t wait any longer to get what you want from men!

Click to pick up your copy today!

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