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Why He’d Already Decided There’d Be No Second Date Resized-to-2048x1549
14
Mar

Why He’d Already Decided There’d Be No Second Date

“You ordered the branzino,” Daniel said. “Good call. I almost did.” “You could have.” “I went safe. The steak.” “That’s not safe. That’s just steak.” He laughed. They talked for a while about small things that felt surprisingly easy — a street in Rome they’d both been to, whether San Francisco had gotten worse or …

How Time Affects Your Exclusivity Decision After 40
7
Feb

How Time Affects Your Exclusivity Decision After 40

Rachel had been seeing Michael for three weeks—four dates, all genuinely good. After the fourth date, as they were saying goodnight, he said: “I’m really enjoying getting to know you. I’m not seeing anyone else. Are you?” Rachel felt her chest tighten slightly. She liked him. But she wasn’t ready to be exclusive yet. Three …

When Self-Sufficiency Backfires in Dating Over 40
24
Jan

When Self-Sufficiency Backfires in Dating Over 40

Lauren met Greg in September through a mutual friend. First date was dinner on a Tuesday. He’s an engineer, she runs her own consulting firm. They talked for three hours. At the end of the night, he kissed her. He called the next day. They made plans for Saturday. By mid-October, they were seeing each …

Why Men Pull Away When You Assume the Worst- Dating After 40
20
Dec

Why Men Pull Away When You Assume the Worst: Dating After 40

They’ve gone out four times. He’s initiated each one, chosen restaurants she wouldn’t have found on her own, paid without hesitation. Between dates, texting is light but steady – a few exchanges every couple of days about articles they’ve read, weekend plans, nothing particularly revealing. On the fourth date, they’re at an Italian place near …