Was it difficult for you to answer the quiz questions honestly? Were you embarrassed by some of the ways you currently handle those situations? Were you trying to figure out what the “right” answer was? Remember, the point of the quiz is to figure out what is right for you, not what’s right for somebody else. Every woman’s Brand of Sexy can look different. If you’re still not sure what your Brand of Sexy is, read the book for more analysis and discussion.
You’re a people-pleaser. Denying your own needs seems to come naturally. Maybe you’re afraid of losing a guy if you say “no” to something he wants when you’re not comfortable with his idea. Cultivate your intuition about what you want and where your boundaries are.
It’s hard to get what you want from a man if you aren’t sure how you feel. That’s why I included the chapter, Emotional Hygiene: Your Voice Matters, in my book, Be Your Own Brand of Sexy: A New Sexual Revolution for Women. You might be surprised to learn that Daisies are vulnerable to being swayed by other people, so you may also want to read Chapter 2: Media and Peer Pressure Solutions Might Not Be Right for You. Chapter 3: Know Where You’re Going, has at-home exercises to help you figure out what you want, so you can know what to do in different dating situations. And, there are more quiz questions with dating scenarios in Chapter 8: Script Your New Game.