Was it difficult for you to answer the quiz questions honestly? Were you embarrassed by some of the ways you currently handle those situations? Were you trying to figure out what the “right” answer was? Remember, the point of the quiz is to figure out what is right for you, not what’s right for somebody else. Every woman’s Brand of Sexy can look different. If you’re still not sure what your Brand of Sexy is, read the book for more analysis and discussion.
You’re a firm believer in equality. Sometimes your view of being a strong and powerful woman might interfere with your instincts and intuition. You might be making decisions according to your idea of what it means to be a “modern woman.” Be clear about your boundaries with men.
I, too, am a feminist. But I worry when Violets let their feminist beliefs override their feelings about how they want to be treated. In fact, one of the main reasons I wrote my award-winning book, Be Your Own Brand of Sexy: A New Sexual Revolution for Women, was to address our cultural confusion about what it means to be strong, powerful women. Chapters 2 and 3 address this in greater depth. I believe this is one of the main reasons why my book has won 13 awards.