6
Sep

Breaking Dating Cycles: The Ghost in Every New Beginning

Sarah told herself she’d learned. After James—opinionated, relentless, always needing to win—she promised she’d never date another lawyer. So when she met Michael at a gallery opening, it felt like a relief. An artist. Soft-spoken. Thoughtful. Nothing like the man before. Six months in, the familiar tension crept back. Sarah braced before speaking, defended small …

30
Aug

Dating After 40: Stay Centered When It Gets Complicated

In an ideal world, dating after 40 would be easy.  There would be plenty of great men to meet—emotionally available, genuinely interested, ready for commitment. Men who say what they mean, follow through on plans, and don’t leave you decoding mixed signals like you’re solving a puzzle. You’d navigate dating with confidence, knowing exactly how …

16
Aug

Communication in Dating Over 40 When Advice Conflicts

“Just be yourself.” “Be confident.” But what if you’re not feeling confident? Maybe you’re nervous about dating again, uncertain about what you want, or still finding your footing. It’s hard enough to decide how you want to handle dating situations when you’re not crystal clear about how to reach your goal. It gets even harder …

2
Aug

Why Am I Still Alone? Dating Struggles for Women Over 40

There’s a particular kind of loneliness that comes with being told you’re “a catch” while watching everyone else pair off around you. You’ve built a successful career and cultivated meaningful friendships. You have traits that should matter to men — intelligence, depth, presence. Yet when it comes to romantic partnerships, you find yourself perpetually on …

12
Jul

Dating Patterns in Midlife: What Sex and the City Missed

“Personally, I’m into the idea of a 40-something boyfriend, but getting one — and keeping him — would take a lot of energy I’m not sure I have. I have only one friend who has succeeded in this quest, and her boyfriend, a hot surfing instructor named Rodney, still won’t introduce her to his friends …

27
Jun

Dating After 40 and the Weight of Unrealistic Beauty Standards

Elena glances in the mirror and tugs at her blouse for the third time. Her lipstick is perfect, but she’s focused on the hollow under her cheekbones she swears wasn’t there a year ago. In twenty minutes, she’ll meet David—a divorced executive she connected with online—for dinner. She’s accomplished, well-read, and genuinely interesting. Yet she …

21
Jun

Self Esteem and Finding Love after 40: What Really Works

Rachel smoothed her dress for the third time and practiced her smile in the bathroom mirror. She’d read the articles: “Confidence is the sexiest trait.” “Men love self-assured women.” “Fake it till you make it.” So when he asked what she did for work, she gave a polished answer about “exploring new opportunities” instead of …

14
Jun

The Loneliness Crisis: Why Relationship Skills Matter

Maria, a successful woman divorced two years, sits across from yet another pleasant man, nodding as he talks about his hiking trip. It’s her fourth first date this month. He’s nice, but she already knows—there won’t be a second. There’s no spark. No depth. Just another conversation that feels surface-level. As she walks to her …

7
Jun

Dating a Narcissist: When You Swore It’d Never Happen Again

Emma had an MBA, ran her own business, and gave great advice to her friends about their relationships. But now she was sobbing in her car—humiliated, heartbroken, and confused. Again. Later, she told her sister, “I feel like an idiot. How did I not see it—again?” Her ex-boyfriend had been charming at first. He’d sweep …

27
May

How Mental Health Affects Relationships: E. Jean Carroll

One of the highlights of mental health awareness month was the legal battle between writer E. Jean Carroll and former president Donald Trump. Wherever you stand politically, this case demonstrates the long-lasting devastating effects that sexual trauma can have on a woman’s romantic relationships and her entire life. Ms. Carroll was awarded $5 million in …

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