Category - Dating Over 40

Laura was getting ready for a dinner party where her friend said there would be “some interesting single people.” She wanted to go. She wanted to meet someone. But standing in front of her closet, she felt her chest tighten. The last time she’d done this—really tried to meet someone—she’d ended up in a relationship …

Rachel had been seeing Michael for three weeks—four dates, all genuinely good. After the fourth date, as they were saying goodnight, he said: “I’m really enjoying getting to know you. I’m not seeing anyone else. Are you?” Rachel felt her chest tighten slightly. She liked him. But she wasn’t ready to be exclusive yet. Three …

Lauren met Greg in September through a mutual friend. First date was dinner on a Tuesday. He’s an engineer, she runs her own consulting firm. They talked for three hours. At the end of the night, he kissed her. He called the next day. They made plans for Saturday. By mid-October, they were seeing each …

Emma had been seeing James for a couple months now. Dinner once a week. She liked him – he made her laugh, asked good questions, seemed genuinely interested. He was attractive, successful, the kind of man she’d hoped to meet after her divorce. One Saturday evening at dinner, he brought up the following weekend. There …

She took the day off, told her assistant she’d be unavailable, and stayed home. Not to rest — she had work to do. It was something she did every year — a hard look at every part of her life, no exceptions. She had a system. Each area got the same scrutiny: career, finances, health, …

They’ve gone out four times. He’s initiated each one, chosen restaurants she wouldn’t have found on her own, paid without hesitation. Between dates, texting is light but steady – a few exchanges every couple of days about articles they’ve read, weekend plans, nothing particularly revealing. On the fourth date, they’re at an Italian place near …

She’d been invited to a friend’s engagement party. The invitation sat in her inbox for a week. She kept meaning to respond, but didn’t. Every time she opened her email, she saw it — and clicked on something else. She told herself she was just busy. But the truth was, she didn’t want to sit …

This is a feeling many single women over 40 know well, even if they don’t mention it. She arrived at the holiday party just after eight. The host’s living room glowed with candles and string lights, the air thick with wine and perfume and competing conversations. She handed over her bottle of red, accepted a …

They’re on their third date, having dinner. The conversation is good – until he brings up his ex-wife. What starts as a brief mention becomes a long explanation of their marriage, the divorce, what went wrong, how she changed over the years. She listens. She nods. She waits for him to finish. She feels herself …

She met him at a fundraiser. During dinner, he turned to her and said, “Does this always go on this long?” She said, “Only when lawyers plan the program.” He laughed. They kept talking through dessert. The next morning, he emailed: “If you’re up for continuing the conversation over real food, I’d like that.” They …