Was 2016 a disappointing year for your love life?
If you’re single, were you hoping there would be a new man in your life by now? If you’re dating someone, did you think he would propose by now?
That’s OK. It’s all behind you now.
That’s what a new year is all about.
It’s a chance to start over.
You can learn what didn’t work for you and how to change what you do so that you can find your way to love in 2017! Don’t let what happened in 2016 let you think that you can’t get the relationship you want.
Challenge yourself to make this year different!
It might feel confusing or overwhelming to tackle not having the relationship you want, and you might not know where to start. That’s OK. You can start with the first step: trying to figure out why things aren’t working out the way you’d like. Here are a few ideas to get you started:
- Do men think of you as a friend and don’t ask you out? If so, read my blog post, Being Lovable Right Now.
- Do they not ask for a second date? If so, read my blog post, Are You Pushing Him Away and Don’t Know It?
- Do men treat you poorly? If so, read my blog post, Do You Train Men to Treat You Poorly?
- Do you go out with nice guys who treat you well, but they break off the relationship with you? If so, read my blog post, How to Keep a Keeper.
Start today! Make a commitment to yourself to make 2017 different. Don’t be afraid to challenge yourself. Download my most popular blog posts of 2016 to help you find your path to love this year!
Believe it or not, it’s a good thing to have some kind of pattern like this. Your pattern can help you to figure out what isn’t working for you and what you can do to turn your situation around.
Then, learning how to be your own Brand of Sexy can help you break that pattern. Being your own Brand of Sexy means figuring out what you want, what works for you as an individual, and what strategies will help you achieve your relationship goals, whatever they may be. It’s also important to be able to stand up for yourself. Not sure if you are being your own Brand of Sexy? Click here to take a quiz to find out!
Tune into the blog this month when we’ll have weekly posts about what it means to be your own Brand of Sexy and which steps you can take to make it happen for you.
What are your dating and relationship goals for the New Year? How do you plan to turn your love life around this year? I’d love to hear from you. Please share your experiences in the comments below and on Facebook and Twitter.
You can do this. Find your way to love in 2017!