It takes a lot of work to realize that the pursuit of perfection is futile. That’s mainly because no one is (and will ever be) perfect. However, some people don’t accept that fact. And even if they do, they still may want to be perfect. What’s wrong with striving for perfection, you may ask? Isn’t …
No one gets married thinking that divorcing might be a serious possibility. But, when you look at the numbers, you realize that divorce is quite common in America. About 40-50% of couples are divorced. If you are one of them, then you may see your divorce as a failure. But, another perspective is to see …
Confidence and self-esteem are not required for you to find and sustain love. I know, this is the opposite of what you’ve constantly heard and been told in the last years. If you believe the soul-crushing myth that you must fully love yourself before you can find a partner, it’s not your fault. In the …
Life can be downright bleak sometimes. No matter how good you had it until now or how many hardships you’ve endured so far, we all have moments when we feel like giving up. Maybe your relationship isn’t all sunshine and daisies. Or maybe you’re single and feeling overwhelmed while looking for a partner and you …
It’s no wonder mindset for dating is such an emotional process. Not only do you have to contend with awkward conversations and an utter lack of chemistry, but some dates can be truly duds. And, if that wasn’t bad enough, those problems are just the tip of the iceberg. When you meet someone you like, the …
Improving your love life can be tricky, and it mostly has to do with how we approach this process. Let me ask you this: What do you do if you’ve been through a rough patch and can’t seem to sort out your love life? Most probably, you blame your lack of success on factors like …
We put a lot of pressure on ourselves when it comes to dating, which can lead to negative thoughts. It’s not surprising that sometimes a simple, casual date feels more important than it needs to. Here’s the thing: a few bad dates don’t mean that you will end up alone. But, you do need to …
Your partner screwed up. He really blew it. You are fuming with anger and disappointment. Before you act, take a few seconds to think about your next steps carefully. We are fed this idea of a perfect man that always gets, always knows what to say, and never messes up. But real men, even the …
Picture this: you’ve just met someone and your chemistry is through the roof. He’s not the most reliable man and you know deep in your heart that he’s not a good match long-term. But, what harm can a brief relationship do? You’re just having a bit of fun, right? Many women don’t consider the toll …
Answer this: How many men have you met who aren’t looking for commitment or who can’t seem to commit even when they say it’s what they want? It’s probably quite a few. After a while, it can get downright discouraging. You might have even started to believe that All men are commitment phobic, but that …