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Pushing Online Love Away
9
Nov

Why Are You Pushing Love Away?

More than half of people ages 18 to 34 are single. For those older than 30, a little less than half are still single. If you aren’t coupled up yet but want to be, then it’s only natural to wonder why you’re still single and what you can do to change that. So, let’s be …

Do Online Men Avoid You Like the Plague?
2
Nov

Single Moms: Do Men Avoid You Like the Plague?

One of my Facebook followers says men don’t date single moms. So in her opinion and experiences, a single mom’s chances of meeting anyone are zero. I don’t believe this. I know many single moms who’ve found Mr. Right and married them. Anecdotes aside, it’s best to have facts and numbers in your arsenal to …

Figure Out Where Your Relationship Stands?
12
Oct

How Do You Figure Out Where Your Relationship Stands?

In art and literature, the season of autumn represents both maturity and ripeness. Friedrich Nietzsche once said, “Autumn is a second spring when every leaf is a flower.” How do you know whether your relationship with a man will bloom like spring or lead to a cold, lonely winter? You may think the easiest way …

Does Being 45 and Single Kill Your Chance at Marriage?
21
Sep

Does Being 45 and Single Kill Your Chance at Marriage?

Last week, we discussed the many ways singles are discriminated against. From “smug marrieds” thinking you could never be happy as a single lady, to having society judge you harshly for being uncoupled, single status can be a heavy burden to bear. In the last article, I neglected to mention the word frequently used in …

Why is Being Unmarried Such a Big Deal?
14
Sep

Why is Being Unmarried Such a Big Deal?

Do people discriminate against you for being single? If you were raised to believe that women shouldn’t be alone after a certain age, it could be difficult to overcome this childhood programming. But, being single and happy is possible. Just look at Oprah. I’ve started answering people’s questions on Quora, a popular Q and A …

Is This a Good Relationship? How to Find One
7
Sep

Is This a Good Relationship? How to Find One

Being in a good relationship is not only beneficial for your soul and emotional well-being, but it’s also good for your physical health, too. Healthy relationships have been found to help people live longer and happier lives, and the proof is backed by long-term scientific studies on the subject. Robert Waldinger, a psychiatrist at Massachusetts …

How Time Can Help Your Online Love Life
30
Aug

How Time Can Help Your Love Life

I recently went to a Rolling Stones concert that was absolutely incredible. Those sage British philosophers played one of their classic songs from the 60s that can provide you with some timeless advice about your love life. It’s called “Time Is on My Side.” Do you ever feel like time in relationships is not on …

Can't You Find the Mature Love You Want
23
Aug

Why Can’t You Find the Love You Want?

So many people want romantic love in their lives, but they can’t seem to find it. If you’ve ever wondered, “why can’t I find a boyfriend?” You’re not alone. Of course, it can be tough to meet the right person, but often, the elusiveness of love is much more complicated.  Are you wondering why you’re …

How to Stop the Déjà Vu in Your Love Life
17
Aug

How to Stop the Déjà Vu in Your Love Life

What does deja vu mean? Déjà vu is the feeling you get that you’ve been in a particular situation before. For example, when a relationship ends, you may have a sense of déjà vu and wonder why you always find yourself alone again. Or you keep ending up with cheaters. When you find out about …