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Are you afraid that you might be too forward with a man? Let’s look at the big picture for a second. As women, we’ve been at a disadvantage. Most of us were raised to put our needs second and prioritize others and how they feel.  Men were generally raised to be assertive while we were …

If there is one thing we known for sure about the current state of affair is that our country is more divided than ever before. So, it may not be that unlikely that you love someone whose political beliefs and views you find disturbing. Unless you live somewhere where everyone thinks alike, you’ve had to …

Sadly, we recently lost Ruth Bader Ginsburg. She was and always will be an inspiration. She fought hard throughout her career to ensure that we have all equal rights under the law. We are forever grateful for her courage and strength to stand up for the less fortunate and we’ll try to learn as much …

The sky has been very strange in California recently because of the wildfires raging in the state. The smoke is so thick that it seems to block the sun entirely, creating an unusual hue that feels ominous and invites self-reflection. I admit it may feel strange to talk about love and dating within the same …

When you’d like to find a good man to date, it’s important to know the best ways to show interest when an opportunity arises. A man is more likely to put some effort into your relationship when he feels he has a chance with you.  Yet, it is possible that you can come on too …

Labor Day marks the unofficial end of summer and now it’s the perfect time to take a second and analyze your love life and decide where you want to be and how to get there. Ask yourself this: Are you happy with the romance in your life? Are you in limbo waiting for the pandemic …

As I’ve told you before, this may be the best time in your life to find love. But how do you get what you want from dating? A lot of women have written to me saying they don’t have the looks, success, or confidence to date. Here’s the thing: those aren’t the secrets to success. …

Some women get super lucky. They manage to meet their soulmate online and live happily ever after. The rest of us mortals endlessly correspond with men they never meet. Or we end up going out with men who aren’t interested in relationships. Worse still, we end up agreeing to dates with guys we know aren’t …

It’s a tale as old as time: women go through breakups, then soothe their broken hearts by making generalizations about men. We tell our friends that it’s not their fault for getting too invested too quickly because men simply don’t know how to be emotionally available, or that there’s no reason to feel bad that …

I’m going to ask you a question, and I want you to answer honestly: are you choosing men based solely on looks? Even if appearance isn’t the only thing that draws you to someone, do you find that you’re more apt to ignore red flags if you think that a man is red hot? If …