21
Feb

Why He Wouldn’t Commit — And Then Married Someone Else

Elena had been running her firm for eleven years. She met Marcus at a conference in Chicago. He was funny. They talked for three hours and she missed the dinner she was supposed to attend. He lived in the same city. That felt like luck. He could tell when she’d had a hard day before …

7
Feb

How Time Affects Your Exclusivity Decision After 40

Rachel had been seeing Michael for three weeks—four dates, all genuinely good. After the fourth date, as they were saying goodnight, he said: “I’m really enjoying getting to know you. I’m not seeing anyone else. Are you?” Rachel felt her chest tighten slightly. She liked him. But she wasn’t ready to be exclusive yet. Three …

24
Jan

When Self-Sufficiency Backfires in Dating Over 40

Lauren met Greg in September through a mutual friend. First date was dinner on a Tuesday. He’s an engineer, she runs her own consulting firm. They talked for three hours. At the end of the night, he kissed her. He called the next day. They made plans for Saturday. By mid-October, they were seeing each …

20
Dec

Why Men Pull Away When You Assume the Worst: Dating After 40

They’ve gone out four times. He’s initiated each one, chosen restaurants she wouldn’t have found on her own, paid without hesitation. Between dates, texting is light but steady – a few exchanges every couple of days about articles they’ve read, weekend plans, nothing particularly revealing. On the fourth date, they’re at an Italian place near …

16
Aug

Communication in Dating Over 40 When Advice Conflicts

“Just be yourself.” “Be confident.” But what if you’re not feeling confident? Maybe you’re nervous about dating again, uncertain about what you want, or still finding your footing. It’s hard enough to decide how you want to handle dating situations when you’re not crystal clear about how to reach your goal. It gets even harder …

5
Jul

Sex and the City Didn’t Model Dating with Intention After 40

Candace Bushnell — yes, the creator of Sex and the City — recently wrote about her experience dating later in life. Bushnell’s story doesn’t show us that dating after 60 is hopeless. It shows us what happens when you approach dating without clarity — no matter how iconic you are. You’d think the woman who shaped …

10
May

Online Dating Expectations vs Reality for Women 40+

Let’s be honest: the idea of dating apps might make you want to hurl your phone across the room. And who could blame you? For many women over 40, the thought of creating a profile, choosing flattering photos, and braving awkward first messages sounds more like a chore than a chance at love. But here’s …

26
Apr

Emotional Intelligence in Dating: Building Real Connections

Anne laughs—genuinely–at Richard’s joke. “You have a great sense of humor,” she says, noticing his left hand has no tan line from a wedding band. “Life’s too short not to find the funny parts,” Richard replies, his smile reaching his eyes. He leans forward. “My daughter graduates next month. First in the family to get …

7
Dec

The Truth About Breaking Toxic Relationship Patterns

Sarah sat in her living room, staring at her phone long after her daughter Karen’s FaceTime call had ended. The knot in her stomach had formed halfway through their conversation, when Karen mentioned canceling her art studio membership because Brad, her new boyfriend, thought they should spend Saturday mornings together at his golf club.  “It …

19
Oct

Are you making excuses for men? What it really means

In April 2021, Jennifer Lopez ended her engagement with Alex Rodriguez, closing a chapter on one of Hollywood’s power couples. A month later she was seen with Ben Affleck, reigniting a flame that had been extinguished for 17 years. Sources say they quickly “picked up where they left off.” Their first engagement had ended in …

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